Love is a mental state, we grow into.
We cant fall in love wid someone, its a mental state in which we evolve when we get involved with the beloved via interactions n touches.
A "mother fed baby" loves her mom becoz both of them r in continuous physical touch. Mothers touch, maa ka sparsh. Thats important. Most important. Physical touch initiates psychological touch. Its a movement from macro to micro state. In the language of Patanjali, "Sthool se Sookshm ki or". Hence both r in love, deep love.
The baby grows up becomes a kid. Goes to school. He wants a bicycle. Papa sanctions the budget. This is not enough. Kid wants papas index finger to hold tight. Cross d road, go n buy d bicycle. Even den papa holds d bicycle n make him learn to paddle it. Both r in love, deep love.
Kid turns to a boy nw. He needs a bike. Mumma nods papa sanctions the budget. He doesnt need dem to buy it. He has his gang to such matters. Mothers touch, maa ka sparsh is reduced, Interactions too. Still dey r in love, not so deep.
Boy turns into a man. Paragraphs r reduced to sentences. Mothers touch, maa ka sparsh reduced just to "Charan Sparsh". His girlfriend has borrowed these sentences n touches. Not to wory, she will hand over it to his wife, if they get bored. Papa n maa feel dey love him. He believes he love dem. All believe love is always deep!
He is married now, obviously happily. Papa n maa r too happy. Sentences r reduced to words. Mothers touch, maa ka sparsh is lost, Interactions too. Now he is no more interested in mummas lullabies n papas stories. He himself is "a papa". No comments on their love.
Wait, now he has a baby. Roles r changed. He is still in love but the objects r changed. Total love in this universe is, thus constant!
24 hrs. Limited touches, limited interactions r possible. Distribute it well. Ur love is limited. Dont lose d touch wid them who love u. Go n touch dem. Touch is important. It helps u grow in love.
Remember, We cant fall in love wid someone, its a mental state in which we evolve when we get involved with the beloved via interactions n touches! :)
-Swarochisha "Swatahvajra"
